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Fraternities just like ones in the movies and on TV. Fact:
Every fraternity is different and unique,
but on our campuses, we have yet to come across any Tri-Lambs, 90210 KEG houses,
Skulls or John Belushi Animal House types. Myth:
Joining a fraternity will lower
my grades. Fact:
The fraternity grade-point average
is higher than the male average. Myth:
Greeks don't like non-Greeks.
Fact:
Greeks pledge over 20,000 non-Greeks
every year. Myth:
Sorority women prefer fraternity men. Fact:
These
women just happen to know more fraternity men. Myth:
You have to drink to be in
a fraternity. Fact:
Many fraternities offer alcohol free
housing and/or have strict regulations on the use of alcohol. There are a high
percentage of fraternity men who do not drink. Alcohol consumption has never been
a requisite for Fraternity membership. Myth:
All fraternities haze.
Fact:
All fraternities have firm stances
on hazing. Fraternities have age-old rituals and traditions that build comradery
and life long friendships. In the majority potential members of fraternities are
never forced to do anything they do not feel comfortable doing. Myth:
Fraternities are too expensive.
Fact:
Annual membership dues can vary from
$100 to $500 depending on the fraternity. This cost is used to pay for upkeep
of the house, intramural sports, community service, scholarships, and the dozens
of free social events offered. As one member put it - "Joining a fraternity is
the best deal on campus!" Myth:
Greeks buy their friends.
Fact:
Friendship is not a commodity that
can be bought and sold. Fraternities build lifelong friendships based on common
interests, goals, beliefs and respect. Myth::
Greek letters take away your individuality. Fact:
Fraternities are comprised of men from
varied backgrounds and interests. The reason fraternity men are so well rounded
is because they learn to respect others individuality and differences. Myth:
You have to live in the Fraternity
house to be a member. Fact:
No you do not, but you can if you want
to. Fraternities offer affordable rooms and parking close to campus. It's also
a great place to stay if you live further from campus. Myth:
Fraternity men are all a bunch
of elitists, racists, and cliquish, aren't they?
Fact:
No. If we were, then why are we here
trying to get you and everyone else to join? Fraternity men come from a variety
of ethnic and economic backgrounds. ANYONE CAN JOIN A FRATERNITY! Myth:
Fraternities take up a lot
of time. Fact:
Fraternity membership requires anywhere from 2 to 8 hours a week. Whether it be
planning a party, a community service project, or regular weekly meetings, fraternity
members have learned to manage their time wisely with other commitments like homework,
girlfriends, and a job. This is also why so many fraternity members have succeeded
in their lives. Myth:
Fraternities don't do anything.
Fact: What do
we do? - Everything that university courses do not offer - development of social
skills, leadership opportunities, a needed break from studying, and FUN! Each
fraternity has numerous social events, charity projects, workshops, and more -
all designed to help you and your resume, so you can succeed. Myth:
"I heard that by joining a
fraternity, my marks would improve. Is that true?"
Fact: Getting
good grades is hard work. By using the numerous academic incentives only offered
by fraternities, such as GPA requirements, study groups, exam and paper libraries,
and scholarships, you will find university life a whole lot easier. Myth:
"If I'm new to campus, shouldn't
I wait to get my "feet on the ground" before I join?"
Fact: University
is a big place. The sooner you know more people, the more comfortable you will
feel on campus. By joining in your first year, you will find adjusting to university
life a lot easier. Every fraternity member who didn't join in their first year
on campus wished they had. Myth:
"Why do fraternity members
call each other "brothers"?
Fact: It is the
sense of family and lifelong friendships a fraternity provides. Fraternity membership
is for life - from the class of '45 to '95 you have a fraternal bond with everyone
- the bond of friendship. Myth:
Fraternities are a thing of
the past. Fact:
People have been saying that for over 150 years now and we are more popular now
than ever.
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