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Q:
How long will I be a "Pledge"?
A:
Pledging is a process that can range from five to six weeks depending
on the chapter. During that time, we ask that our potential new
members familiarize themselves with out history, codes of conduct,
and traditions. Most importantly, the pledging period is the time
when you will get to know your future brothers. Our Pledges are
involved in all of our fraternity's activities from social
events to philanthropy activities to annual alumni banquets. The
more actively you participate, the better your experience, as a
Pledge of Phi Kappa Pi will be.
Q:
Do you guys party
all the time?
A:
We have all seen Animal House. We all have a stereotype in mind
of what fraternities do: they drink excessively, party all night,
and become the bane of their respective university. At Phi Kappa
Pi this is simply NOT TRUE.
Phi Kap social events
require organization, planning and hard work on the part of many
Brothers. A successful party is a testament to our ability to function
as a group and our ability to create a safe atmosphere where we
all can enjoy ourselves. To that end, we all follow strict guidelines
which are designed to allow everyone to have fun.
Parties and internal
activities aside, Phi Kaps are involved in many joint and individual
ventures, both on campus and within the community. Orientation Week,
charitable fundraisers, food drives, working with disadvantaged
children, inter-Greek activities these are just a few of
the items on a typical Phi Kap resume. We are always eager to get
involved.
Q:
Will
the fraternity take up a lot of my time?
A:
Time management means something different when you get to university
than it did in high school. You now have so much available time
on your hands that you can either use it or waste it. We do ask
that our potential new members commit time and effort to our fraternity
as with any organization, you will only get out of it what
you put into it. However, we will never ask that you put the fraternity
ahead of your studies. Phi Kappa Pi strives to instill responsibility
in all of its Brothers. That responsibility begins in the classroom.
Q:
My
parents don't want me to join a fraternity. What if I just didn't
tell them?
A:
Many parents will cringe at the mention of joining a "fraternity".
This reaction stems from the stereotypes that follow many fraternities
and other social organizations: beer, women, parties, hazing, pranks,
etc. The best way to put your parents' fears to rest is to be honest
and open with them. Tell them a bit about our history and our many
social activities. Invite them to talk to our Brothers we
would be happy to speak frankly with them on any subject. Phi Kappa
Pi is an extended family that includes the families of all of our
members. Some of our most rewarding relationships have been with
the parents of our Brothers.
Q:
How
much does it cost to join?
A:
Our annual dues are used to fund our many internal and social activities,
including Wine & Cheeses, Christmas Dinners, and Annual Weekends.
To this end, every dime can be accounted for. Unlike other fraternities,
we do not ask our New Brothers to contribute funds to some international
organization or trust fund. You will be surprised at how little
you will have to contribute financially to Phi Kappa Pi and how
much you will get in return.
Q:
What
intramural sports do you do?
A:
Any and all. Our sports teams are open to all Brothers and Pledges
alike, regardless of skill. With such diversity in our ranks, we
can almost guarantee that there will always be at least one Phi
Kap ready and willing to participate in any sport you want.
Q:
My
dad is an Alumni of Phi Kapppa Pi. Do you honor legacies?
A:
A quick glance at our membership will reveal many "legacies"
in our fraternity Grandfathers to Fathers, Fathers to Sons.
However, it is important to remember that each Brother of Phi Kappa
Pi joins on his own merits. Whom you are related to (or even friends
with) is not important. It's who you are as a person that counts.
Q:
I
am worried about my grades. What can your chapter do to help me
in school?
A:
Our Brothers come from a wide variety of faculties. Chances are
that you will find at least one Brother in a given chapter that
will have already taken a class in which you are currently enrolled.
We can provide invaluable academic assistance and experience to
Pledges and New Brothers seeking help. As well, we can teach you
time management skills an ability that will benefit you long
into the future.
Q:
Do
you get a lot of support from alumni?
A:
Part of belonging to Phi Kappa Pi means continued support even after
your undergraduate years are over. We publish alumni newsletters,
maintain an alumni database, hold alumni events, and use alumni
contacts to help graduating Brothers obtain job interviews. Our
Alumni lead by example, provide valuable and needed assistance in
all areas, including financial, and most importantly, show us that
Phi Kappa Pi is not just for the undergraduate
it's for life!
Q:
Do
you haze? What is involved in your initiation process?
A:
HAZING ABSOLUTELY NOT! Phi Kappa Pi Brothers are proud, respectable
men that do not demean themselves with adolescent displays. Nothing
is learned through hazing and nothing is gained. As a Pledge, you
will be exposed to many time honored Phi Kappa Pi traditions and
will often be invited to participate. Under no circumstances will
you ever be forced or coerced into doing something you do not want
to do. Trust and respect are two very important principles in a
Phi Kappa Pi chapter house. You will know this the minute you step
through our doors.
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